Adult Babies & Diaper Lovers

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AB/DL stands for ‘adult baby/diaper lover’, and is distinct from other age play fetishes like daddy dom/little girl in several ways. While people who identify as littles often feel as though their ‘little self’ is an integral part of them, adult babies tend to have a clearer sense of engaging in a role play scenario. Diaper fetishes can also exist in isolation from baby play. Baby play specifically addresses the natural need of all people to feel loved, protected and cared for – as well as giving its participants the chance to cut loose, relax and give up all their responsibilities for the length of a scene.

Although it is commonly confused with pedophilia, the two conditions are distinct as infantilists desire to be and to impersonate a baby in order to increase the power difference between themselves and their preferred adult sexual partners, with whom they desire to act out masochistic fantasies.

Studies show the desire to play around with vulnerability mostly resides in the person role-playing submissiveness rather than the person role-playing dominance. The person playing the dominant usually gets their pleasure from seeing the other person testing their limits.

For more information you can check out the ABDL Community Directory or watch an example case of a persons journey into ABDL:

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Table of Contents

  • Educational Resources
  • Media Spokespersons
  • Events
  • Forums
  • Vloggers
    • First Person Perspective
      • Relationships/Sexuality
    • Friends & Partners
    • Foreign Language
  • Podcasters
  • Authors

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Educational resources

Understanding Infantilism

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Media Spokespersons

Video

Barcroft TV

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Inside Edition

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MTV

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Writing

Huffington Post

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Events

CAPCon (Chicago, IL; United States)

http://chicagoageplayers.com/

Details: CapCon is a convention in the Chicago suburbs that specializes in Ageplay, Adult Babies, and Diaper Lovers.

Upcoming Date: March 28, 2019 – April 01, 2019

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West Coast Jungle Gym (San Diego, CA; United States)

https://www.thewestcoastjunglegym.com/

Details: A weekend for those that wish to come together with other Age Players regardless of gender, identity, race, age or ability by providing a safe place for age players to express themselves, learn, and share their ideas, thoughts, dreams and do all the things while supporting each other and the groups mission of promoting awareness of Age Play to the Kink and Leather communities through education, volunteering and respect.

Upcoming Date: September 06, 2019 – September 08, 2019

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TOMKAT (Lavigne, Ontario Area; Canada)

http://www.tomkatcamp.com/

Details: TOMKAT is an AB/DL/ageplay focused camping trip on private land. TOMKAT started off as a way to unite the AB/DL/ageplay communities surrounding Toronto, Ottawa, Montreal, and Kingston. Their mission is to strengthen and unite the ageplay community through memorable camping experiences of exploration and fun while being most welcoming, well known, longest running, and safest gathering in the ageplay community.

Upcoming Date: June 10, 2019 – June 17, 2019

Upcoming Date: September 16, 2019 – September 23, 2019

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TeddyCon (Allentown, PA; United States)

http://www.teddycon.org/home

Details: A fun filled weekend for ABDLs, Ageplayers, Littles, and Bigs. Featuring classes, workshops, a playspace filled with toys, crafts, pageant, movie time, vendors, and so much more.

Upcoming Date: October 17, 2019 – October 20, 2019

USLittles International Ageplay Retreat (Winter Park, Florida; United States) (Evergreen, Montana; United States)

http://www.uslittles.com/

Details: This is an annual international get-together of Adult Babies, Diaper Lovers, Caregiver Mommies, Caregiver Daddies, Caregiver Uncles, Caregiver Aunts, and friends of ABDL girls and boys. This ABDL international retreat purpose is to bring together all AgePlayers.

Upcoming Date: October 7, 2019 – October 14, 2019

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The “Littles” Express (York County, Pennsylvania; United States)

http://littlesexpress.com

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Forums

Fetlife

Forum Boards

Reddit

Tumblr

WordPress

Instagram

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Vloggers

First Person Perspective

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Binkie Princess

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Friends & Partners

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Foreign Language

Español

Información general

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Relaciones / Sexualidad

Peque :3

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Encuentros

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Podcasters

The Little Lounge

How do I explain AB/DL to my partner? Learn to love my kinks? Start roleplaying with my vanilla partner? These are just some of the big questions that AB/DL advocate, Lo, discusses on the top-rated Dream a Little Podcast. Featuring interviews with people in the community as well as actionable advice, each episode is designed to help AB/DL’s courageously and confidently share their kinks.

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The Big Little Podcast

The Big Little Podcast show is an audio program by, about, and for age players of all kinds. We cover a broad range of age play topics, from diapers to discipline and topic shows to personal interviews.

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Authors

There is a baby in my bed by Rosalie Bentitem image #10

Is your partner an Adult Baby? Do you find diapers hidden in odd places and don’t know why? Does your spouse want to play with children’s toys or dress in baby clothes? These and other such questions are all answered in Rosalie Bent’s breakthrough book: There’s a baby in my bed! Seeking to help partners understand the confusing and often incomprehensible behaviour of a regressive adult, Ms Bent takes the reader on a journey of discovery through the inner workings and outer expressions of the 21st century’s most unusual and secretive inhabitant: the Adult Baby. Each chapter unfolds a new aspect on infantile regression. Offering more than facts and figures, this book lays out a pathway for developing the most unique relationship that any couple can have – the ‘Parent/Child Relationship’. Come on the journey with Ms Bent and discover for yourself how to handle the baby in your bed!

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item image #11Adult Baby: Psychology and Practices by Michael Bent & Rosalie Bent  

The world of the Adult Baby can appear bizarre and incomprehensible to many from the outside looking in. Even to Adult Babies themselves the powerful drives and confusing needs can be a struggle to manage. In the Bent’s second major work on the topic, this book dissects the psychological structure of Adult Infantile Regression and seeks to answer many of the seemingly unanswerable questions such as ‘why are people attracted to diapers?’, ‘where did this all come from’ and ‘what do I do about this?’ Discover more at www.abdiscovery.com.auThis book is designed not just for Adult Babies themselves, but also family, friends, partners and therapists who want to simply understand what is going on.There is a lot more to Adult Babies than diapers and pacifiers. Read this book to learn more!

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item image #13The Adult Baby Guidebook by Brian M. F. Burch  

Face it. Being an Adult Baby is tough. Even being the parent or partner to an AB is tough. People don’t understand Adult Babies. What are we to do? Let this book guide you through the difficulties Adult Babies, and those who love them, face in life. Online, and even on Amazon, there is no shortage of exotic material, pictures of beautiful people in diapers, and sexy stories of age-play relationships. Yet, being an AB is difficult, strange, and confusing, and nobody ever addresses these important topics…

item image #14TheAge Play and Diaper Fetish Handbook by Penny Barber

Penny Barber has put her years of experience as a diaper fetish model, AB/DL switch, and professional Mommy into The Age Play and Diaper Fetish Handbook: The Ultimate Guide to the World of AB/DL. It is the first complete resource for anyone who wants to know about the world of age players and diaper lovers. Perfect for professional players, the partners of AB/DLs, and AB/DLs themselves, The Handbook is packed with practical tips on everything from choosing the perfect diaper to administering AB/DL punishments to the best regression methods.

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item image #15Ageplay: from Diapers to Diplomas by Paul Rulof

Do you want to be a sassy schoolchild or a baby again? For an hour or maybe longer? Ageplay, or role-playing focused on being a different age, is one way to have fun and express yourself. Whether emotionally satisfying, sexually satisfying, or both, this type of role-playing is fun and evocative. This book will guide you through the differentaspects of ageplay. Sections include describing and choosing roles, setting up scenes and interactions, and finding other people to connect and play with. Included are quotes from ageplayers, describing their interactions and feelings, as well as a list of scene possibilities.

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item image #16The Toybag Guide to Age Play by Lee Harrington

The adult baby, the sassy schoolgirl, the bratty teen – all hold an honoured place in the erotic roleplaying imagination of many adults. International educator Lee ‘Bridgett’ Harrington, an ageplay devotee of many years’ experiences, explains the boundaries, possibilities and techniques of ageplay, with an emphasis on keeping it safe and consensual. Part of the range of Greenery’s Toybag guides: sturdy little reference books designed and priced for impulse purchase.

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item image #17The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton, Catherine A. Liszt, Janet W. Hardy & Illustrator Fish

Nearly a decade ago, this book and its companion volume, The New Topping Book, began teaching tens of thousands of people the joyous arts of BDSM topping and bottoming – not just technique, but emotional support and ethical interaction. Since then, the growing popularity of BDSM and the blossoming of the Internet as a source of information and connection have created a whole new universe of possibilities. Now, the completely revised NEW BOTTOMING BOOK offers even more insights and ideas, updated for a new millennium, about how to really play.

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